Summertime is a swell time to be gay. The shorts are short, the days are long, and Pride Festivals pop up in every major city center.
I love the magical 48-hour bubble that is “Pride.” For one weekend, the queers come out to play. The straights get a little bent. Even semi-conservative politicians shake hands with gay babies and kiss old ladies.
But what about the rest of the year? The non-Pride part? Where does the celebratory spirit go? And more importantly — how do we (by which I mean LGBT citizens and allies) stay vocal and visible?
Here’s how I show my pride the other 363 days of the year:
♥ Supporting + promoting LGBT entrepreneurs via Twitter, my blog and networking groups like StartOut.
♥ Busting stereotypes about what a lesbian “should” look like. Hello, neon sequins!
♥ Holding my girlfriend’s hand, whether we’re at an upscale gay bar, a tractor parade, or shopping at an outlet mall in rural Minnesota.
♥ Patronizing local businesses with outspoken commitments + ties to the LGBT community.
♥ Partnering with innovative LGBT-focused social media outlets, like Unicorn Booty.
♥ Taking care of my physical, financial and emotional health, so I can lead by example.
♥ Blasting RuPaul’s albums from my sassy VW beetle convertible, wherever I be rollin’!
So, those are my ideas — I reckon my readers have a few more. Please let your freak flag fly in the comments!
(Image via Autostraddle)






I love this list!
I second that love! This post is great, and helped me to get out of a funk I’ve been in for the last week. Pride! Such a beautiful word! What’s on my list?
Holding my boyfriend’s hand as we walk down the street.
Answering questions even if they are silly.
Not answering questions because they are silly.
Talking about it, and not being silenced.
Writing Comics.
Laughing.
Crying.
Supporting people who are part of our wonderful GLBTTFIAQQ communities.
Being Me.
S. ORCHARD: Thanks for adding to the list! I especially love “being me.” Please don’t stop. :)
Oooh, oooh! Showtunes! Musicals! Loudly!! All.The.Time!
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RuPaul drag race! YEAH!!!! <3 That.